Sex toys can be fun to use with or without a sexual partner. The key really is understanding yourself and your sexual needs. This article will provide a simple guide for first time sex toy buyers and of course first time using sex toys for them to maximize the experience.
Your First Time
First time using sex toys or the first purchase is always the hardest. You are shy at first and cannot look or tell the sex shop boy/girl what you need and what you want. The trick is be honest with yourself, know what you want, it does not matter if you’re heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or if you derive pleasure from non mainstream means such as anal, BDSM, bondage, etc. You have your own sexual preference so speak up and make that purchase.
Don’t Be Shy Ask Around
Asking a sex shop girl or boy can be a bit tricky. I mean, how does a grown man say, do you have anything for my anus? But if you think about it, they’re used to it by now, so act like a pro. Tip, try to go online first and view catalogue and shit, or you can go to your favorite porn site or view your favorite porn stars and see what they are using. Yes I am talking about you Sasha Grey and Rebecca Linares, your fleshlights were awesome!
You Need To USE IT!
Some sex toy buyers go thru all of the trouble and relative embarrassment and decide to hide, or throw away their purchase. That’s not right! You bought the freaking thing so use it, have fun with it!
Reading the Instructions
You use your sex toy to poke, prod, press, etc. the most sensitive spots. Yes, this means your pussy, breast, your anus, your mouth, your prick and who knows what. So it would be best to read the instructions first, and know what you can and cannot do with the freakin thing. For example, if the toy says use a lubricant, then use freakin’ lubricant. If it says do not immerse in water, then it isn’t a good idea to bring it with you to the shower, honey!
Last but certainly not the least, you need to remember three things: First, enjoy your purchase in the most uninhibited, hedonistic means possible. Second, wash the freakin thing after and before the deed! And third, there’s more where that came from baby!
Without getting infected from dangerous diseases like AIDS, and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) sex toys help you in gaining maximum pleasure that you cannot attain from normal sex. Although sex is a naturally biological need of every living being on this planet, not all males & females get completely satisfied with sex. With the ghost amount of precision, sex toys are instru ments designed to enhance the sexual pleasure of a male or female. Dildos and vagina flashlights, are designed in a natural way to give the real look & feel as if having sex. To help you in better understanding the sex toys and their usage for the first time ever, read the following tips:
Understanding nature of toys– Every sex toy has its own nature. Dildo, and vaginal flashlights are made in a myriad of models, shapes, and sizes. It is better to choose the one most suitable for your pleasure that you can easily handle.
Clean them up! – Whether it is a dildo or a vagina torch light, it is essential to clean them in luke warm water with some baking soda so that any or all chemicals could be removed off them and you can use them easily to enjoy sexual pleasures.
Lubricate them as much as you can– Unlike the vagina and the penis, which are self-lubricating in nature, sex toys need artificial oil based lubrication to give you maximum sexual pleasure. It is compulsory to lubricate these toys as per your requirements to gain maximum sexual pleasure and reach the ultimate level of orgasms.
Get sexually warmed up– Getting sexually aroused is very important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Ladies, do not rush taking the dildo all in without first getting it lubricated to reduce friction. If you don’t do so, you would end up having vaginal disinfection. Moreover, you would have a very painful experience in inserting the dildo.
Keep it slow– Ladies, police isn’t going to catch you! Feel relaxed, lubricate the toy and insert it slowly. Do not rush in inserting the entire dildo in any way or you would not gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Play with it any way you like. Deep, shallow, fast or slow, as long as you are aroused, you would enjoy!
Work out till you are done – Keep using the couples sex toy to your desired level of satisfaction. It is advisable not to exceed a single moment when you start feeling pain or swelling in or near your vagina