Sex toys can be fun to use with or without a sexual partner. The key really is understanding yourself and your sexual needs. This article will provide a simple guide for first time sex toy buyers and of course first time using sex toys for them to maximize the experience.
Know What You Want
First time using sex toys or buying your first sex toy is like propositioning your first man or woman. You are all sweaty, can’t look the person in the eye and your tongue decides to take a freakin vacation. The best advice for first time buyers is, GET IT OVER WITH. Who cares if your first purchase is crappy, it will still be a memorable experience.
Where to Look
Everyone has been there; first time buyers and users will always be hesitant to ask for what they want. A good way to start your experience is by going online and browsing the many websites that advertise sex toys. But for first time buyers, it is really recommended that you visit an actual Location of a sex store for a more perfect fit.
You Need To USE IT!
Some sex toy buyers go thru all of the trouble and relative embarrassment and decide to hide, or throw away their purchase. That’s not right! You bought the freaking thing so use it, have fun with it!
Always Read the Instructions
A sex toy maybe a toy but it is something that you will use to probe some of the more sensitive parts of yourself and others. That is why it is very important to use the same in a manner that it was made for and never for something it was not. Okay, you can stretch things a bit and be creative but always follow the "not to do" portion and pay attention to the warning labels.
Make Sure You Have Fun
Last but certainly not the least, you need to remember three things: First, enjoy your purchase in the most uninhibited, hedonistic means possible. Second, wash the freakin thing after and before the deed! And third, there’s more where that came from baby!
Without getting infected from dangerous diseases like AIDS, and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) sex toys help you in gaining maximum pleasure that you cannot attain from normal sex. Although sex is a naturally biological need of every living being on this planet, not all males & females get completely satisfied with sex. With the ghost amount of precision, sex toys are instru ments designed to enhance the sexual pleasure of a male or female. Dildos and vagina flashlights, are designed in a natural way to give the real look & feel as if having sex. To help you in better understanding the sex toys and their usage for the first time ever, read the following tips:
What are these toys made for?– Every sex toy is made up of different nature and purpose. Dildos are used for vaginal penetration, whereas vaginal flashlights are used for penile penetrations. It is in the best interest to first understand the nature of these toys and then buy them according to your mode. A plethora of colors, sizes, and models are available in the market and you need to select the most suitable one for yourself.
Wash them up– Any toy to be used specifically for inserting in your body, should be carefully washed first. This is important as toys are made up of plastic and other chemicals that if not washed properly, could cause vaginal infections. Therefore, it is imperative to wash them with warm water and a perfumed soap.
Proper lubrication – The bad thing about sex toys is that they are not self-lubricating in nature, unlike the penis and the vagina. It is of pivotal importance to use as much lubrication as possible to make sure that there is minimum amount of friction while you play with them. Many dildos and vagina flashlights do not easily penetrate, due to which is important to use an oil based lubricant like perfumed hair oil.
Get sexually aroused – Just like it is important to warm up for any physical activity, it is equally important to get sexually aroused before using any sex toys or you would not be able to enjoy them.
Do not rush!– Vagina is a sensitive area, and unlike the penis that hardly damages it, if you use sex toys in a roughly manner, you could end up getting your vagina swelled. Do not rush at all. Make sure that the toy is properly lubricated and enjoy it as if you would with your sex partner.
It is hoped that the above tips help your understanding in better using the female sex toys for the first time.