Sex toys can be fun to use with or without a sexual partner. The key really is understanding yourself and your sexual needs. This article will provide a simple guide for first time sex toy buyers and of course first time using sex toys for them to maximize the experience.
Finding Your Very First Toy
First time users of sex toys need not worry as long as they know what they want. Don’t be afraid, be honest, sex toys do not judge you for your sexual preferences or for how you arouse yourself. Take your pick from a wide range of selections, from the usual sex dolls, dildos , simple vibrators, and anal beads to the exotic leather, whips, ropes, etc.
Sex Shop’s Are All about the Service
Everyone has been there; first time buyers and users will always be hesitant to ask for what they want. A good way to start your experience is by going online and browsing the many websites that advertise sex toys. But for first time buyers, it is really recommended that you visit an actual Location of a sex store for a more perfect fit.
Open it Now, Not Later!
Some sex toy buyers go thru all of the trouble and relative embarrassment and decide to hide, or throw away their purchase. That’s not right! You bought the freaking thing so use it, have fun with it!
Follow the Instructions
A sex toy maybe a toy but it is something that you will use to probe some of the more sensitive parts of yourself and others. That is why it is very important to use the same in a manner that it was made for and never for something it was not. Okay, you can stretch things a bit and be creative but always follow the "not to do" portion and pay attention to the warning labels.
Last but not the least, have fun. Wash your toys before and after use. Be adventurous. And then go out and buy some more.
Many times when females don’t get satisfied with natural sex form their sex partners, they often get frustrated in attaining the maximum level of satisfaction. One good way in getting rid of sexual dissatisfaction is by using sex toys that are specifically designed to improve sexual pleasure. However, using any sex toy for the first time could be a very frustrating or painful experience. By carefully following the below mentioned tips, you can greatly reduce your pains and enjoy sexual pleasure derived out of these instruments:
What are these toys made for?– Every sex toy is made up of different nature and purpose. Dildos are used for vaginal penetration, whereas vaginal flashlights are used for penile penetrations. It is in the best interest to first understand the nature of these toys and then buy them according to your mode. A plethora of colors, sizes, and models are available in the market and you need to select the most suitable one for yourself.
Wash them up– Any toy to be used specifically for inserting in your body, should be carefully washed first. This is important as toys are made up of plastic and other chemicals that if not washed properly, could cause vaginal infections. Therefore, it is imperative to wash them with warm water and a perfumed soap.
Proper lubrication – The bad thing about sex toys is that they are not self-lubricating in nature, unlike the penis and the vagina. It is of pivotal importance to use as much lubrication as possible to make sure that there is minimum amount of friction while you play with them. Many dildos and vagina flashlights do not easily penetrate, due to which is important to use an oil based lubricant like perfumed hair oil.
Get sexually aroused – Just like it is important to warm up for any physical activity, it is equally important to get sexually aroused before using any sex toys or you would not be able to enjoy them.
Keep it slow– Ladies, police isn’t going to catch you! Feel relaxed, lubricate the toy and insert it slowly. Do not rush in inserting the entire dildo in any way or you would not gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Play with it any way you like. Deep, shallow, fast or slow, as long as you are aroused, you would enjoy!
It is hoped that the above tips help your understanding in better using the female sex toys for the first time.