Sex toys are fucking awesome, with or without a partner! That is of course if you are open minded enough and liberated enough to try something new in bed or in any other place you and your partner decide to fuck. The rationale is simple, free fucking a.k.a. fucking without the use of adult sex toys is always a pleasurable experience but if you want to fuck the brains out of someone, you’ll need to have the right tools of the trade.
Finding Your Very First Toy
First time using sex toys or the first purchase is always the hardest. You are shy at first and cannot look or tell the sex shop boy/girl what you need and what you want. The trick is be honest with yourself, know what you want, it does not matter if you’re heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or if you derive pleasure from non mainstream means such as anal, BDSM, bondage, etc. You have your own sexual preference so speak up and make that purchase.
Where to Look
Nowadays, sex toys can be purchased via the internet, and this is not really a bad way to get started with what you want. Look at the many websites, note down your favorite porn star sex toy, or participate in blogs. But if you can, then it would be best to visit an actual sex store locations so you not only see what you buy, but feel it.
Open it Now, Not Later!
When we first made a purchase we went home and kept the dildo on the top shelf of the corner closet, and there it gathered dust for a few weeks before we got the courage to actually open it up and use the same. Thinking about it now, we realized we were just too ashamed to use the toy and that feeling is just ridiculous because deep down inside (and thank heavens that feeling surfaced) we wanted to use the toy as soon as we bought it.
Always Read the Instructions
A word to the wise though: if there are instructions and warnings for use, it would be best to follow the same. Remember, we are looking to pleasure ourselves, not injure ourselves. Tip, whatever toy you buy, when you use it for the first time it would be best to stick with the basics before doing something more extravagant.
Make Sure You Have Fun
The last and probably the most important tip for first time sex toy users is to forget about what society thinks of your sexual preference. Think about you and/or your partner’s sexual gratification. Pleasure yourself with your first purchase, clean it before and after use; and don’t forget, there are more where that came from.
Without getting infected from dangerous diseases like AIDS, and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) sex toys help you in gaining maximum pleasure that you cannot attain from normal sex. Although sex is a naturally biological need of every living being on this planet, not all males & females get completely satisfied with sex. With the ghost amount of precision, sex toys are instru ments designed to enhance the sexual pleasure of a male or female. Dildos and vagina flashlights, are designed in a natural way to give the real look & feel as if having sex. To help you in better understanding the sex toys and their usage for the first time ever, read the following tips:
Understand the nature of the sex toy – At times, dildos could scare you when you open unpack them for the first time. Moreover, companies don’t even take the liberty of providing an essential training manual on how to use one.
Always wash before usage– Since toys are made of plastic, there are chances of their condemnation using dangerous chemicals. It is advisable to always wash them in warm water with baking soda, or soap to get rid of all chemicals present on their surfaces. This would help you in getting complete peace of mind by using these toys.
Oil up the toys! – Just like motor oil is important for effective functioning of the motor, similarly oiling up the toy is also important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Use only oil based lubricants so that they don’t stick with in your vagina.
Get sexually warmed up– Getting sexually aroused is very important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Ladies, do not rush taking the dildo all in without first getting it lubricated to reduce friction. If you don’t do so, you would end up having vaginal disinfection. Moreover, you would have a very painful experience in inserting the dildo.
Take it real slow – Do not rush entering the toy in your vagina. Remember, the complete freedom to control dildos and other sex toys, is in your hands. Take deep breaths, and push inside slowly, perhaps half an inch at a time. The deeper you breath, the better the chances of getting aroused and enjoying fun.
Work out till you are done – Keep using the couples sex toy to your desired level of satisfaction. It is advisable not to exceed a single moment when you start feeling pain or swelling in or near your vagina