Sex toys are fucking awesome, with or without a partner! That is of course if you are open minded enough and liberated enough to try something new in bed or in any other place you and your partner decide to fuck. The rationale is simple, free fucking a.k.a. fucking without the use of adult sex toys is always a pleasurable experience but if you want to fuck the brains out of someone, you’ll need to have the right tools of the trade.
Your First Time
First time using sex toys or the first purchase is always the hardest. You are shy at first and cannot look or tell the sex shop boy/girl what you need and what you want. The trick is be honest with yourself, know what you want, it does not matter if you’re heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or if you derive pleasure from non mainstream means such as anal, BDSM, bondage, etc. You have your own sexual preference so speak up and make that purchase.
Where to Look
Asking a sex shop girl or boy can be a bit tricky. I mean, how does a grown man say, do you have anything for my anus? But if you think about it, they’re used to it by now, so act like a pro. Tip, try to go online first and view catalogue and shit, or you can go to your favorite porn site or view your favorite porn stars and see what they are using. Yes I am talking about you Sasha Grey and Rebecca Linares, your fleshlights were awesome!
When we first made a purchase we went home and kept the dildo on the top shelf of the corner closet, and there it gathered dust for a few weeks before we got the courage to actually open it up and use the same. Thinking about it now, we realized we were just too ashamed to use the toy and that feeling is just ridiculous because deep down inside (and thank heavens that feeling surfaced) we wanted to use the toy as soon as we bought it.
Follow the Instructions
You use your sex toy to poke, prod, press, etc. the most sensitive spots. Yes, this means your pussy, breast, your anus, your mouth, your prick and who knows what. So it would be best to read the instructions first, and know what you can and cannot do with the freakin thing. For example, if the toy says use a lubricant, then use freakin’ lubricant. If it says do not immerse in water, then it isn’t a good idea to bring it with you to the shower, honey!
Last but certainly not the least, you need to remember three things: First, enjoy your purchase in the most uninhibited, hedonistic means possible. Second, wash the freakin thing after and before the deed! And third, there’s more where that came from baby!
Sex toys provide you with an excellent feeling to enjoy virtual sex without getting infected with AIDS or any other STDs. Sex is a biological need for every man and woman, which is literally impossible to avoid. Many males & females do not get their sexual desires fulfilled only by having sex, due to which, they rely on using sex toys. These instruments satisfy their body and are normally of very attractive looks. These instruments are known as sex toys. It is your first time, or you are a veteran user, these tips would definitely help you in overcoming your fears with sexual instruments:
What are these toys made for?– Every sex toy is made up of different nature and purpose. Dildos are used for vaginal penetration, whereas vaginal flashlights are used for penile penetrations. It is in the best interest to first understand the nature of these toys and then buy them according to your mode. A plethora of colors, sizes, and models are available in the market and you need to select the most suitable one for yourself.
Wash them up– Any toy to be used specifically for inserting in your body, should be carefully washed first. This is important as toys are made up of plastic and other chemicals that if not washed properly, could cause vaginal infections. Therefore, it is imperative to wash them with warm water and a perfumed soap.
Proper lubrication – The bad thing about sex toys is that they are not self-lubricating in nature, unlike the penis and the vagina. It is of pivotal importance to use as much lubrication as possible to make sure that there is minimum amount of friction while you play with them. Many dildos and vagina flashlights do not easily penetrate, due to which is important to use an oil based lubricant like perfumed hair oil.
Get sexually aroused – Just like it is important to warm up for any physical activity, it is equally important to get sexually aroused before using any sex toys or you would not be able to enjoy them.
Do not rush!– Vagina is a sensitive area, and unlike the penis that hardly damages it, if you use sex toys in a roughly manner, you could end up getting your vagina swelled. Do not rush at all. Make sure that the toy is properly lubricated and enjoy it as if you would with your sex partner.
There is no general rule of thumb, when it comes to using vibrating sex toys. The key is to have fun, relax and listen to your body.