Sex toys are fucking awesome, with or without a partner! That is of course if you are open minded enough and liberated enough to try something new in bed or in any other place you and your partner decide to fuck. The rationale is simple, free fucking a.k.a. fucking without the use of adult sex toys is always a pleasurable experience but if you want to fuck the brains out of someone, you’ll need to have the right tools of the trade.
Know What You Want
First time using sex toys or the first purchase is always the hardest. You are shy at first and cannot look or tell the sex shop boy/girl what you need and what you want. The trick is be honest with yourself, know what you want, it does not matter if you’re heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or if you derive pleasure from non mainstream means such as anal, BDSM, bondage, etc. You have your own sexual preference so speak up and make that purchase.
Don’t Be Shy Ask Around
Asking a sex shop girl or boy can be a bit tricky. I mean, how does a grown man say, do you have anything for my anus? But if you think about it, they’re used to it by now, so act like a pro. Tip, try to go online first and view catalogue and shit, or you can go to your favorite porn site or view your favorite porn stars and see what they are using. Yes I am talking about you Sasha Grey and Rebecca Linares, your fleshlights were awesome!
Some people have gone thru the trouble of buying a sex toy but refuse to use the same after the purchase. This happens more often than you think, with excuses ranging from "I do not have the time", "I am too shy to use it", or "I feel disgusted with myself". For crying out loud you bought the damn thing so use it!
Always Read the Instructions
A sex toy maybe a toy but it is something that you will use to probe some of the more sensitive parts of yourself and others. That is why it is very important to use the same in a manner that it was made for and never for something it was not. Okay, you can stretch things a bit and be creative but always follow the "not to do" portion and pay attention to the warning labels.
It’s All about the Nookie
Last but not the least, have fun. Wash your toys before and after use. Be adventurous. And then go out and buy some more.
Without getting infected from dangerous diseases like AIDS, and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) sex toys help you in gaining maximum pleasure that you cannot attain from normal sex. Although sex is a naturally biological need of every living being on this planet, not all males & females get completely satisfied with sex. With the ghost amount of precision, sex toys are instru ments designed to enhance the sexual pleasure of a male or female. Dildos and vagina flashlights, are designed in a natural way to give the real look & feel as if having sex. To help you in better understanding the sex toys and their usage for the first time ever, read the following tips:
Understand the nature of the sex toy – At times, dildos could scare you when you open unpack them for the first time. Moreover, companies don’t even take the liberty of providing an essential training manual on how to use one.
Always wash before usage– Since toys are made of plastic, there are chances of their condemnation using dangerous chemicals. It is advisable to always wash them in warm water with baking soda, or soap to get rid of all chemicals present on their surfaces. This would help you in getting complete peace of mind by using these toys.
Oil up the toys! – Just like motor oil is important for effective functioning of the motor, similarly oiling up the toy is also important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Use only oil based lubricants so that they don’t stick with in your vagina.
Warm up – Have you ever enjoyed sex without getting warmed up? I bet you haven’t. As a result, it is important to get sexual aroused and warm up before using the sex toys so that you can gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Feel relaxed, as time is all yours!
Do not rush!– Vagina is a sensitive area, and unlike the penis that hardly damages it, if you use sex toys in a roughly manner, you could end up getting your vagina swelled. Do not rush at all. Make sure that the toy is properly lubricated and enjoy it as if you would with your sex partner.
It is hoped that the above tips help your understanding in better using the female sex toys for the first time.